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Those feelings may change and evolve over time, as you change and evolve as a person. You may find the absolute perfect woman for you on day one, and then six months later realize that there are subtle differences you would make that would create an even better situation for you. You will have been on the other side and experienced it. I want you to have someone who knocks your socks off! Besides, that is your birthright as a child of the Creator.
I will focus on giving you tools for lasting change, so you can permanently undo your not-so-desirable habits and bring out the. The great news is that you already have this natural talent and ability inside. I have dated many beautiful women. In my earlier years I said and did all the wrong things that we men tend to do.
In my later years of dating, I finally got it right. So how did I go from clueless wonder to this point of understanding? There was one woman, my missing link, if you will, that opened my eyes to understanding women.
But it was this particular woman that helped me put it all together. I mentioned this story in the introduction, but I wanted to go over it again to show how this particular relationship actually helped to evolve my understanding of women.
In my earlier years of dating, somewhere around , I met this woman. She had dark hair, dark eyes, nice skin, and she was tiny. She told me straight out: We had gone to high school together, but she had been a year behind me.
She walked up and I was just stunned. Her beauty left me breathless. I was having some beers with my buddy Sean, and he introduced us. I could tell she was interested by the way she was looking at me. I could feel that she was really attracted to me. That was my first awareness of understanding. There had been several times in my life where I had thought a woman was attracted to me, and then could never get any further than her phone number.
This was blatant and in. I could FEEL her attraction. There was no doubt in my mind that this woman had a high level of attraction. I was still pretty clueless back then, though. The night went on and we went our separate ways. When I woke up the next day, the horrible feeling dawned on me: However, she had told me where she worked.
I took a chance and called her at work and basically said: Hi, this is Corey. She told me she was really busy, but asked me to give her my number and she would call me back the next day. Deep down, I feared she would never call back like all the others. I gave her my number, and I was just so in awe.
I actually had butterflies in my stomach. This was the first time I had met a girl that I really liked that was really into me. She called me the next day, and I talked to her for at least an hour and a half on the phone. While we talked, she told me things such as she had just split up with her boyfriend, and then went on to volunteer all this other information about herself.
She was asking me all these questions like: I was kind of an open book. However, she did most of the talking, which was exactly the right thing to do. I just let her talk, and I listened. I have found that women love to talk, men just need to learn how to listen. Believe me, gentlemen, there is a right and a wrong way to the art of listening that we will be covering later in the book.
Finally she asked: I jumped right on that and set a date. That was another thing I did right without even realizing it: I made a firm commitment for a date, and then left it at that. So, she showed up for lunch that day wearing these really short shorts. She had an unbelievable body with a nice tan, and she was breathtaking — absolutely drop dead gorgeous.
I was working construction at the time. I was still going to school for construction management, and I was a project engineer at the job site office. I was in the back and I heard the door open and she walked in. The guys called out from the front, saying: When I walked out, the guys had been having a meeting at the conference table and they were just staring at her. It felt so good, because she was obviously there to go out with me.
That was another thing I did right. I knew she was there for me and took pride in it. They were jealous of me being with her, but they were enjoying what they were seeing. In that regard, I was in a place of strength and confidence. A woman definitely takes notice of little things like that. We went up the street and had a great lunch.
Again, she did most of the talking, which was the right thing. She was very aggressive. With hindsight, I realize now that she was pursuing me because I did so little of the talking. I was a bit of a mystery to her. In reality, I was an open book and not sure. She just had not caught onto that yet. This is great. Her dad was very wealthy, and he owned a night club in Fort Lauderdale. One night she invited me there. I went with another friend of mine.
It was a very busy club. She had all these guys coming up to her and hugging her, and she seemed to know everybody there. She kept walking away and talking, and all these people kept grabbing her to talk.
Finally, my friend said: I was pretty bummed out, but agreed. The next morning she called me and asked: What happened to you last night? I looked everywhere for you. I held the phone away, thinking: I found out by accident that I had done the right thing, and I had just walked away.
Remove yours. If a woman is too sure of you, if she thinks she can walk all over you, her attraction drops. I was thinking about you. Think of dating like playing poker. You simply want to hold your cards close to your vest so she reveals her cards first. When women are uncertain or unclear of your interest, they will put themselves into your orbit by contacting you. When a woman starts chasing you by initiating contact first, usually after the 2nd or 3rd date on average , it causes her to start chasing you more and more.
Once a woman feels comfortable enough, she will start calling you more and more as the weeks go by, assuming you keep doing more things right than wrong. I showed that I could walk away from her at any time. It baffled me at the time. This went on for another two or three weeks and we went out a couple more times.
I never did kiss her. How do you know when a woman is open to being kissed? As you are talking and you are sitting close, her knee may be touching yours, she may be touching your arm or body, she may be leaning toward you, standing so close that her body is bumping yours, etc. Do it! If you wait and hesitate too long, she will lose attraction and assume you are not worthy. If you hesitate, you will masturbate. Eventually, she stopped calling. It got to the point where I called her and left a message.
I was at work. She had always paged me before. The bottom line was that I was so easy and so available, that she saw me as weak and thought she could basically have her way with me. She would invite me to come out, and I would meet her.
I had no center. Eventually she saw that and then she just blew me off. A guy who is good looking can get away on his looks for the first few dates. That was what happened with me. It was about six months later when I met the woman who would become my ex-wife. I remember being out on a date at the same bar where I had met the other woman. My ex-wife was all over me, and I remember seeing the other woman out of the corner of my eye, just staring at the two of us together.
Once again, I was confused, thinking: I kept thinking: What gives? When you are with a woman and she knows or assumes you are dating other women, just make her feel a little more special than the other girls you.
Keep it simple, charming, playful and little vague. Let her fill in the blanks in her mind. It is all about the energy and the confidence the guy exudes. When they are single, no one wants to date them. Women have this radar. When a woman sees a guy with a woman, especially another beautiful woman, she wonders: Women are very competitive in that respect. I figured: The advice they gave me seemed sound, and it meshed with what I had always thought about women. This sometimes pisses women off, but the truth is, the average woman does not understand what attracts them to one guy vs.
What they say they want in a man is not what they actually date and stay with. Most women, when you bring your problems about understanding another woman to them, will try to make you feel better about what is going on.
It is just like when you try to date a woman, she is not going to tell you straight out: A woman friend is not going to burst your ego and tell you: Hey, it sounds as though. Instead, they will give you rationalizations: Maybe she is just coming out of a bad relationship. Maybe she just likes you too much and is afraid of getting into something right now.
Women are emotional beings and will always think about how what they say is going to make you feel. So take their advice with a grain of salt. Why do women, even our female friends, do this to us?
Is there something wrong with me? They would rather try to soothe it over and nudge you gently in another direction, rather than being straight up about their suspicions and hurt you. Women are all about emotions and emotional reactions. Men are more straightforward.
They would rather have simple, non-emotionally clouded answers. The trouble is that our women friends do nothing more than cloud the issue rather than setting us straight. But they also want to be engaged in the chase. Dating is a full experience of emotions for them. They want to feel as though they have earned your love, and that you have earned theirs. Little girls tend to go to their fathers and sit in their laps for love and reassurance.
He is her rock. Her unmovable Mountain that is always there and always accepts and loves her unconditionally.
He makes her feel safe and comfortable. I remember a trip to the beach I took one time with a former girlfriend, her 7-year-old daughter and some family. During the day, we were in the pool because it was hot. He was constantly disappointing her.
I remember the sad look on her face after her father would tell her he was not going to be seeing her when she wanted to see him. It made her feel like he did not love her. However, I was the father figure that took his place when he was not around, which was most of the time. It was more like she would fall into my arms so I would grab her and embrace her.
She got in and out of the pool dozens of times to do this. She never tired of it. I remember another time when I was picking up her daughter to take her for the day to Disney World, one of her favorite places.
As I was driving to pick her up, she would call me to see where I was and how close I was. Wait there! She jumped into my arms and I knelt down to catch her.
I picked her up for a big hug and kiss. I loved that little munchkin, and still do today, even. Time flies! She totally opened my heart and changed my life. Kids are our greatest teachers. The important thing to understand about the love and relationship dynamic between little girls and their fathers, and why it causes women to chase the men they desire, is they both crave the unconditional love and masculine presence of the men they love or care about.
When a woman contacts you by telephone, text, e-mail, instant message, etc. When women become unsure of where they stand with you or when they miss you, they contact you so you can make it easy for them to get the love and reassurance they are seeking.
So if a woman contacts you, you must assume it is because she wants you physically, emotionally, spiritually and mentally. She wants to be penetrated by you and your love. Obviously, little girls grow up and have adult relationships with the men they love.
However, the dynamic of how women go about getting this love is similar to how they seek love and support from their fathers. When a woman contacts you, she wants you in some way. If you really love and care about her, you will facilitate getting together. It does not matter what you say, what you promise in the future or what you did for them last week.
When women do not feel that you love them, or love them enough, they will feel hurt and often become bitchy and resentful. Beware Of The Bitchy Woman. Think about what this means. Women will chase you if you give them the space to miss you by not chasing them. Your inaction will cause them to take some action to get confirmation that you care and desire them. In essence, all you really have to do is simply say yes to their advances. Men who chase women get rejected because the very act of chasing a woman is a submissive feminine quality.
Plus, it simply will not feel right to a woman if you chase her. If you do, she will become flakey, unsure of things, confused, etc. One of the biggest booming industries in the publishing world that caters to women is the romance novel. They sell millions of these books to women all over the world. You will find that even the most intelligent of women, ones that proclaim these books to be nothing more than drivel, have read one or two of these books at one time or another in their lives.
What is the big draw? Most of your romance novels have a very basic formula to them. You can even go to the manuscript submission pages for the publishing houses and find what that formula is: Boy meets girl. Boy usually treats girl with indifference. Girl finds boy contemptible, yet cannot seem to stay away from him. Girl and boy fight the growing attraction. Boy ends up with girl in a very romantic ending. When you ask a woman what she wants, what she says she wants and what she actually emotionally responds to are two different things.
When you ask a woman what she wants in a guy, she will usually respond with something like: Well, I want a man that wines me, dines. When you treat her that way, she blows you off and for some reason goes out with a guy who does none of those things for her. So what is it that attracts her to the bad boy and causes her to blow off the nice guy?
She can completely have her way with him. He acts more like a woman than a man. Emotionally, that does not make her feel safe or that he could actually protect her. It says to her that he is untrustworthy, and that basically he will do or say anything just to make her happy.
That is not what a woman wants. A woman wants someone who is a partner, someone who can take the direction in the relationship. An alpha male is a leader. Whether you have just met, or you have been together in a year relationship, you have to know what you want. Instead of saying: Basically, what that tells a woman is: The more beautiful a woman is — the more guys she has that act that way. She wants a guy that is going to stand out. She wants him to be more of a man than she is.
The more beautiful woman she is, the. If she goes out on an average weekend, she might give her phone number out to 10 or 12 different guys. Predictably, what happens is that 9 or 10 of those guys are going to call her the very next day and ask her to go out on a date.
From that point, she can basically decide which ones she wants to go out with, or if she wants to go out with any of them at all. Your goal is to be different. There are some simple, subtle things that you need to learn about raising her attraction level, approaching her properly, asking for her number and setting definite dates with confidence.
They are pursuing them, and really want to be with them. I will be going into that more in depth later in the book.
One of the other things that we will cover is once you are dating and starting to get serious about a woman, what to do to maintain her level of attraction. I can just kick back and drink my beers and just sit in front of the TV all weekend and eat chips and pizza. This is not the case. The courtship continues. It will be on-going your entire life. It never ends. A lot of guys have had their girlfriend just up and leave them, or their wife has just up and left them after 10 years, and they say: What the hell happened?
I thought everything was great. They just own their masculinity, they own their strength, and they own their core, purpose, and direction in life. They are naturally confident with women, because they grew up in a very loving household, or they have learned for themselves what it takes. I have a few close friends who are naturally good with women.
One of them is one of my best friends from high school. They have three beautiful children together. His wife looks hot and still takes care of herself. Their attitude is… why fight?
They both came from good loving families, so things were easy for them. He is so charming and awesome at charming banter. They still have a great sex life. He did the same thing with his first wife that I did with my first wife. He settled. He got married at 21 and right when he was about to tell her he was leaving her a few months later because he made a mistake, she revealed she was pregnant. Twelve years and two kids later he finally got the courage to leave.
His current wife of 40 plus years was only 18 when they met. He was They have two kids and are now grandparents. He taught me a lot about women! His wife loves the shit out of him. When you come to your friends to talk about a woman and what is going on in your relationship, their first instinct is to give you advice.
Ask yourself this question first: What kind of a relationship does my friend have? Does she seem happy in the relationship? Is she loving and affectionate to him? Is he ignoring her while she goes about and does her own thing? What is her interest level in your friend? If the answer is yes, then maybe your friends have a clue.
If the answer is no, as it usually will be, then why on earth would you want to take their advice for your own relationship? Face the facts. If they do not have relationships that you. The number of healthy relationships out there, while increasing due to some of the awareness being brought to the concept, is still pretty low.
I once believed I had great parents. In retrospect, I realize that there was no real love shown between them. There was never an: I love you exchanged that I ever witnessed. Why should that be such a big deal? When there is no love shown between the parents, it creates insecurity in their children. In my case, when I went out into the dating world, I was shy and insecure.
I felt unloved and unlovable. When children grow up around parents that do not show love to each other, children in turn perpetuate that in their own relationships in the future. Is that the type of relationship that you want for your children? The same kind of loveless, trapped relationship you may be in now? One you may have been exposed to by your own parents? Parents stay together for years without showing the proper example of a loving, healthy relationship to their children.
This in turn makes the kids think: They become emotionally and mentally conditioned and anchored into feeling like dysfunctional relationships are normal. If the parents had worked to maintain a healthy relationship, or separated into other, healthier relationships, the kids might have had a clue by the time they reached their own teenage dating years. I had one friend who was married to a girl that he got pregnant at the age of 16 or Over the years, what may have seemed like love at first, turned into a marriage solely for the sake of the children.
He began to have an affair. She started gaining weight — a lot of weight. She was seeking her happiness in food and using it to fill her up with that feel good sensation she was missing in her marriage. At a wedding for a mutual friend, both the husband and wife shot one negative barb after another at each other.
Both of their boys were extremely obese, very unhappy, and had very low self-esteem. They will probably end up seeking out the same type of relationships for themselves, never knowing that there can be better for them.
They will end up perpetuating the pain for another generation. Parents may think they are staying together for the sake of the children, but kids need to see parents in happy, loving, supportive relationships. The choices you make in your relationship life can certainly have an impact on the other people around you, especially the kids. There is also the impact on yourself to consider, as well as the happiness of the other person in the relationship.
I have already said it before - if you are not growing together in a direction, then maybe you need to consider going your separate ways, so that you can continue to grow. The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the quality of the people you consistently spend your time with. The ultimate impact in a relationship that involves children is how they carry their own relationship knowledge forward with them, into the next generation.
Your legacy to your children should be learning. Your example is what sets the way for them to find the same kind of love in their lives in the future. Ultimately, the only way to see healthier relationships around us is to be a part of building our own happiness and letting it follow forward through the next generation.
It is so important that people learn the information I have to offer. All you have to do is go to a mall, to a public event, or to dinner, and just look around at the other couples. Half of them are sort of staring into space, and they are not talking. They are just kind of present. They are hanging out as roommates. There is nothing there in the relationship. A man should learn to take the direction in the relationship.
It is funny when you go to the malls, and you can tell who wears the pants in the relationship. You usually see the woman walking about 5, sometimes 10 feet in front of the man and the kids. The husband is walking as though being led by the nose, going along with whatever she wants.
She is in total control of the relationship. If you are with your lady, you should either be holding her hand or walking side by side with her as a true equal.
The bottom line is that. You can hear them talking as they go along: What do you want to do, honey? They want the man to make the decisions and make the plans.
Women just want to show up for a date looking hot, have fun and have the man lead things successfully into the bedroom. These guys are the biggest pushovers in their relationships with her. They take her flying on their corporate jet and throw tons of money at her. I used to tease her about her engagement ring collection, because she had four or five guys that had bought her engagement rings.
The problem is that she is so in her masculine side. She would start out: Oh turn left on this road and go this way. I would have to say: Just be a girl and have fun. I have everything handled. Just have a good time tonight. I am not like the regular guys you go out with. So she learned to run the household and the relationship from her mother. She is always in her masculine side, and yet she is drop dead gorgeous.
She is very. In addition to that, she is so strong — she is so in her masculine side — that the only kinds of guys she can get are very feminine guys.
Elon Musk is a turd. Girls are actively repulsed by him, except for his fortune. Don't emulate that social retard. And who knows how desperate his texts are to his wife or whoever. What's next, game tips from Mark Zuckerberg? Jesus Christ Do you often have 1st night lays where the girl stays over at your place dafuq?!! Hence being there in the morning? Big mistake. I would text her about hours after fucking just to be clear you haven't ghosted if you actually want to see her again.
It's not practical to do the 'she contacts first only' rule At least some do. You're overplaying your hand if you are so severe, you are radio silent until she texts you.
You risk having her eject since you are overplaying so hard to make it seem like you absolutely do not give a fuck about her. This would be extreme measures employed against a girl who actively believes she's much better than you. Even most models are so insecure about their looks and status, they usually don't necessitate these kinds of power plays. That's dated and shows the author's age. I'm 30 and I don't talk on the phone to fucking anybody but my parents.
Oh and close friends when it's useful, but women? I agree it sounds kinda gay. I used to hate that fucking word. But it was passionate the last time we had sex.
We smoked weed too which made it more intense, and in the morning she did all sorts of crazy shit that I won't go into. Actually the first night she didn't stay over, but she did the next time. And yes, I have had lots of ONS's where the girl stays over. Yeah, that's what I was thinking, and why I reach out to her sometimes uninitiated, particularly the day after sex. However, Cory Wayne really advocates this strategy, and it seems to work for people. Been following him a year.
Do you straight up make the girls initiate every single conversation, then ask them on a definite date as soon as they do? I only use dating apps. So I build a rapport and ask for a drink near a bar about feet from my place. One thing leads to another usually. Let her come to you. Shit like that. One of the key lessons I got from this book was a comparison he made about how women are like cats and the more you chase them around the more they will run away.
Its a really good book, personally the only thing that bothered me about it was how much he kept linking to articles in his blog instead of actually explaining things, especially in the audiobook it was annoying at times. Still its a great book. Rinse and repeat. Is she always the one reaching out first? Yes but you need to tell her to text you later at the end of each time you hang out. Seems a little unnatural. She then texted me first today.
I feel like after a while, girls start to just fall into the routine that Corey Wayne mentions. It has good baseline info and the audiobook is a good listen. If someone is broke they can easily find a free pdf download within a few minutes. No excuse not to read it honestly. Haha sorry don't get me wrong. Didn't want to say that the audiobook is worthless. Audio or a pdf are both fine, I meant that everyone should consume the complete book, doesn't matter in which format.
Hey man, if you could send me the link for the audiobook that would be great. I couldn't sign up for audible because I'm having troubles with my credit card.
I compiled a longer list of books. Also his methods of how to screen for interest. We tend to force things when there is no need to which is why i love his phrase, "attraction isn't a choice. Either she likes you or she doesn't. I thank him for teaching me how to actually keep her attracted because that was always my weak point haha. Haha you and me both. My relationship skills were trash.
I had zero awareness of my own agency in the ebb and flow of attraction. This book has saved my relationship.. Being able to identify her "test" and staying in my center makes everything so much easier. My only disappointment was that after reading his book and applying his material, I got a smoking hot girlfriend so fast that I couldn't really work on applying it in more scenarios. Did you follow his method completely? Does your gf initiate every single conversation, and then you set a definite date as soon as she does?
I followed almost exactly for a couple months. Other than calling to set a date, I don't think I initiated a text for months into the dating. About months in she brought up the "what are we" conversation about exclusivity or just fwb and we became exclusive. I had stopped seeing this 2nd girl a little while before that so I wasn't seeing anyone else and just agreed not to after that.
It was actually better doing the "don't ever initiate" routine because by setting the precedent early on that I'm busy and don't text bullshit flirty messages just to say hi that she should not expect them throughout the days and weeks now that we're in a relationship. And yeah I started seeing this girl before reading Cory Wayne, so it would be hard to switch to that mode.
Does it add any new information. I read models twice and don't see why I should read this. The problem with Models is that it just talks about one important part, which is being vulnerable and genuine. Manson is currently dating a Brazilian girl. Personally, I find his views helpful, but Cory Wayne actually gives pragmatic guides for making the girl invest in the relationship, and to chase you. If you feel that you're already in a place where your dating life is great, you understand how women work and you don't lack quality relationships and dates then I don't see why you should be reading this or anything like this.
However if you feel like you don't understand women and you tend to fail in some areas then you might wanna give it a go. I read Models as well, before this and when I compare the two I'd say that Models is quite vague and not straight to the point at some places. It can actually confuse you and do more harm than good. Wanted to read.
Saw the book is dedicated to a group of war mongering killing machines. Stopped right there. Sorry but he shows his morals when he says he supports the troop no matter whether their actions are justified or not.
It means he writes the book with the same low level of moral standards. Your life will be a challenge if you believe you can ONLY learn from people who share identical values to yourself. It does make a different if it is about his values and why he has these values or a book where he tries to teach behaviour based on what he believes is right.
Would you read a book from Steve Bannon about how to be a good father? I don't think so. Everyone in this thread who has read the book says it's fucking awesome, full of solid advice and has been very helpful. Rather than give it a fair chance, you have jettisoned the opportunity for improvement in the very area you are on this sub to learn about.
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